Tasya: That Social Media Destroys Real Human Relationship

Now days (nowadays) not only adult have social media, now children have social media too…..And I bet all of you have social media. Actually the purpose of social media is for adults not for children because there are photos and videos that child cannot see. The fact about this problem is like Facebook, children under ages cannot see what inside facebook and if we want to see we need to make an account. And (no need ‘and’ here) there is a  question to make an account and one of the questions is You born in what year? And children under ages make a fake birthday right…

But before I continue do you know what relationship, social media and gadget are? Gadget are an electronic device or tool, Social media are the application that enables users to create and share contant or to participate in social networking and the last is Relationship, relationship are a relation between people(relationships is often called relation).

So back to my argument of why I agree with this motion are.. First is based on https://socialimplications.com Here is what I noticed when looking at my own relationship. Those that we heavily based in contact through social media outlets were much less substantial than relationship where we kept in touch in person.Example There is a girl,she have plenty friends from online and real life. But the one who she kept in touch with person are closer than the online relationship, this happen because in online relationship we didn’t really  know about them because we never met with them but in real life we know the person really well because we directly  meet them.

My second reason is Children will rarely play outside with their friend because they were too busy with their own social media. Like there is a kid that doesn’t have any social media or even gadget and this kid have lots or maybe tons of friends. One day his dad bought him a gadget and then he was very excited with the gadget because he never have one so this is the first time he have a gadget. And everyday he see his parent playing social media, and because he interested so  he download one of the social media called Instagram.  Because he like the social media so he always play it even when he eat and at night he always put his phone beside him. And because of the social media  he never play outside again with his friend and one day his parent took the phone because his score is getting bad and now he is trying to find friends again, but there is no one who want to be his friend.

My third reason is 77% person say yes that people have forgotten that there are more important things to do than a phone or computer screen. Like if there is a girl that have instagram, facebook, twitter and etc. And she’s really addicted to her phone and her mom ask her to study because she have assessment on the next day when she is playing Instagram. And because she is really addicted with her phone she doesn’t want to study,she doesn’t even read it she just pick and open the book.But infront of her book there is her phone so she is just pretending to study. And her mom know it and then her mom blames her social media because if she doesn’t have social media she will be serious and if she is serious she will get a good score. And because of that social media the good relationship in between parent and children become a bad relationship.

My last reason is based on www.aha-now.com there is a quotes like this

“Other things may change us, but we start

And end with family”

Anthony Brandt

The name of social networking is ironical as it doesn’t bring people and family closer,instead creates a big drifts in relationship with who matter most to us.Even experts like Dr.Laura Schlessinger believe that cyber technology and social networking are having a negative effects on the family.

Something that mentioned below are a negative effects of social media for the family:

1.    A normal healthy family conversation or gathering has now been replaced by texting massageing sessions, those leading to abbreviated words that lack true emotions.

2.    Family activity time is now replaced by endless hours of internet surfing of chatting with people you may or may not know.

3.    Poor communication lead to relationships problems, which are one of the main problem that are happening to family now days, as you don’t speak to each other, instead prefer talking with to people online whom you may or may not even know.

So in conclusion I strongly believe that this motion “That social media destroy real human relationship” should stand. Because social media have so many bad effects or down sides for our relationships:

a.    we know less about each other. Meanwhile we should know each other specifically because maybe our friend is a criminal that want to use us for criminal action, because now days there are so many type of crime.

b.    we will rarely play outside with our real friends because sometimes online friends from social media is not royal for us but our real friend is really royal because when we have problems they always help us but in online relationships sometimes when we tell our problems they will not be really care with us.

c.    they will forgot that there are more important things to do than just seeing a phone or computer screen. Like a family time, now the family time has been replaced by “technology time”. Just look at some one who doesn’t have any parent of course they really miss the family time. And before their parents past away they were rarely to have a family time.Because they replaced the place of family time with seeing each own phone or computer screen.

d.    the name of social networking is ironical as it doesn’t bring people and family closer,instead creates a big drifts in relationship with who matter most to us.Like if there is a gathering time with family and one of the member is playing a phone and one of the member is asking to the member that is playing the phone. And the one who is playing the phone is ignoreing the question and it always happen in the garthering time and the one who is asking is mad so he/she will not ask again. And one day when the one who usually  is playing the phone ask to the person that usually ask a question, and the one who usually ask the question is ignoring so the one who is asking become mad and they never talk, even say hi to each other