Now days (nowadays) not only
adult have social media, now children have social media too…..And I bet all of
you have social media. Actually the purpose of social media is for adults not
for children because there are photos and videos that child cannot see. The
fact about this problem is like Facebook, children under ages cannot see what
inside facebook and if we want to see we need to make an account. And (no need ‘and’
here) there is a question to make an
account and one of the questions is You
born in what year? And children under ages make a fake birthday right…
But before I continue do you
know what relationship, social media and gadget are? Gadget are an electronic
device or tool, Social media are the application that enables users to create
and share contant or to participate in social networking and the last is
Relationship, relationship are a relation between people(relationships is often
called relation).
So back to my argument of
why I agree with this motion are.. First is based on https://socialimplications.com Here is what I noticed when
looking at my own relationship. Those that we heavily based in contact through
social media outlets were much less substantial than relationship where we kept
in touch in person.Example There is a girl,she have plenty friends from online
and real life. But the one who she kept in touch with person are closer than
the online relationship, this happen because in online relationship we didn’t
really know about them because we never
met with them but in real life we know the person really well because we
directly meet them.
My second reason is Children will rarely play outside with
their friend because they were too busy with their own social media. Like there
is a kid that doesn’t have any social media or even gadget and this kid have
lots or maybe tons of friends. One day his dad bought him a gadget and then he
was very excited with the gadget because he never have one so this is the first
time he have a gadget. And everyday he see his parent playing social media, and
because he interested so he download one
of the social media called Instagram. Because
he like the social media so he always play it even when he eat and at night he
always put his phone beside him. And because of the social media he never play outside again with his friend and
one day his parent took the phone because his score is getting bad and now he
is trying to find friends again, but there is no one who want to be his friend.
My third reason is 77% person say yes that people have
forgotten that there are more important things to do than a phone or computer
screen. Like if there is a girl that have instagram, facebook, twitter and
etc. And she’s really addicted to her phone and her mom ask her to study
because she have assessment on the next day when she is playing Instagram. And
because she is really addicted with her phone she doesn’t want to study,she
doesn’t even read it she just pick and open the book.But infront of her book
there is her phone so she is just pretending to study. And her mom know it and
then her mom blames her social media because if she doesn’t have social media
she will be serious and if she is serious she will get a good score. And
because of that social media the good relationship in between parent and children
become a bad relationship.
“Other
things may change us, but we start
And
end with family”
Anthony Brandt
The
name of social networking is ironical as it doesn’t bring people and family
closer,instead creates a big drifts in relationship with who matter most to us.Even
experts like Dr.Laura Schlessinger believe
that cyber technology and social networking are having a negative effects on
the family.
Something that mentioned
below are a negative effects of social media for the family:
1.
A normal
healthy family conversation or gathering has now been replaced by texting massageing sessions, those leading to abbreviated words that lack true emotions.
2.
Family activity time is now replaced by endless hours of
internet surfing of chatting with
people you may or may not know.
3.
Poor communication lead to
relationships problems, which are one of the main problem that are happening to
family now days, as you don’t speak to each other, instead prefer talking with
to people online whom you may or may not even know.
So in
conclusion I strongly believe that this motion “That social media destroy real
human relationship” should stand. Because social media have so many bad effects
or down sides for our relationships:
a.
we know less about each other. Meanwhile we
should know each other specifically because maybe our friend is a criminal that
want to use us for criminal action, because now days there are so many type of
crime.
b.
we will rarely play outside with our real
friends because sometimes online friends from social media is not royal for us
but our real friend is really royal because when we have problems they always
help us but in online relationships sometimes when we tell our problems they
will not be really care with us.
c.
they will forgot that there are more
important things to do than just seeing a phone or computer screen. Like a
family time, now the family time has been replaced by “technology time”. Just
look at some one who doesn’t have any parent of course they really miss the
family time. And before their parents past away they were rarely to have a
family time.Because they replaced the place of family time with seeing each own
phone or computer screen.
d.
the name of social networking is ironical as
it doesn’t bring people and family closer,instead creates a big drifts in
relationship with who matter most to us.Like if there is a gathering time with
family and one of the member is playing a phone and one of the member is asking
to the member that is playing the phone. And the one who is playing the phone
is ignoreing the question and it always happen in the garthering time and the
one who is asking is mad so he/she will not ask again. And one day when the one
who usually is playing the phone ask to
the person that usually ask a question, and the one who usually ask the
question is ignoring so the one who is asking become mad and they never talk,
even say hi to each other
